About Domestic Abuse

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If you believe someone you care about may not be safe in their home or their relationship, we encourage you to take a few minutes and Show You CARE.

Understanding Abuse

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What Kind of Relationship is it?

All relationships fall somewhere on a spectrum from healthy to unhealthy to abusive. Not sure where yours falls? Review these characteristics.

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What is Domestic Abuse?

There are many types of domestic abuse, and it can happen to people of all races, religions, cultures, and backgrounds. Learn the signs.

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Am I in an Abusive Relationship?

Do any of these issues sound familiar? If so, SHALVA can help.

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Profile of an Abuser:

Abusers can look like anyone: they can be of any background, age, race, gender, and culture. But there are common traits in how abusers act.

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What is Emotional Abuse?

Emotional abuse is different from the emotional moments all couples face at one time or another. Find out why, and how to spot it.

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When you Think Someone Needs Help

Are you concerned that someone you care about is in an abusive relationship? Here’s how to help, and what to avoid.

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Show You CARE - Videos

Videos featured throughout the Show You CARE interactive tool to review and share.

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Finding the Right Words

When a friend is experiencing domestic abuse, it's hard to know what to say. These phrases can help.

For Rabbis and Congregations

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10 Things Congregants Can Do

“In the Torah there can be no compromise on human dignity.” Find out what you and your congregation can do today to help end domestic abuse.

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A Call to Action

Domestic abuse violates the cherished principles of Jewish tradition and law. Here’s what rabbis and cantors can do to lead your community.

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What to do when a Woman Confides in You

Domestic abuse is not just a woman’s issue: it is a community issue, and Rabbis can play an important role in stopping it.

Local Resources

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Social Service Agencies & Support Services

SHALVA is one of many community resources available for those in need. Please see the following for help with crisis, shelter, legal issues, financial issues, and sexual abuse.